Sunday, May 14, 2017

Let's talk about miscarriage

Once a miscarriage, the pain remain forever.. the void inside you.. the chair on the table where you fantasize that they would be sitting on..
even fter you are blessed with other beautiful children that you love to the bones..
Even if you never talk about it or show it..
Even if no one understand or notice it.
Even if you denied it or hid it even from your own self..
It is there.. the void is there..
The pain is there even after you accept it and embrace it..
The fantasies are there.. the dreams you had for them since the happy news when you peed on the pregnancy test
A child is never substituted, not even by another child..
It is normal.. it is not shameful nor unthankfulness.. it is motherhood.. it is the love for our children, even the unborn ones..
But God will make a way for peace and joy to find places in your heart again.
It is painful, but believe me, it is not the end of the world, unless you choose to make it. 
Lots of love & prayers ❤

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